Sunday, November 19, 2006

Finally, The Real Proposal™ magazine BlogSpot!

We simply cannot thank you enough! The overwhelming response to our Pre-Subscription Mailers and outpouring of support for this magazine project continue to amaze—and humble—us. So many of you have confirmed what was deposited within our spirits from the very inception of this project, that there's unequivocal need for a publication like The Real Proposal™ on the national newsstands! We are continually encouraged by your constructive comments, and the tremendous ideas for articles and features so graciously submitted. Without doubt, you are the kind of lively audience with whom we seek interaction. In fact, some of you will remember that it was because of your clamor for more now that we decided to present our interim web site offerings, A Mere Glimpse and MARRIAGE In The News. So, we hope you're continuing to enjoy the articles we search the web to feature each month.

These offerings chronicle recently published news articles, opinions, and human-interest stories highlighting the critical elements and interpersonal relations that arise and ought to be rightfully considered when contemplating marriage, and within marriage. Some of our postings feature many of the issues surrounding parenting and divorce—issues, which subsequently and, seemingly, inevitably arise once we choose “marriage,” or any of the counterfeit living arrangements that promise a “test drive.” Others reveal the extent to which currently raging socio-political debates on issues like same-sex marriage are affecting our every-day lives, and our choices. Have you looked yet at the alarming
statistical trends on the chaotic state of "Marriage" and "Family" in the United States today? Scary, aren’t they? Largely, the statistics reiterate that many of these trends will continue unabated without a rudimentary grasp and purposeful dissemination of TRUTH in the media on the issues. As best as we can prior to our launch, we will continue to present the issues in ways that stimulate thought and point towards TRUTH. We believe it is important to present upfront what drives our agenda—what will distinguish our editorials. Simply, we believe in moral absolutes, and that there is a moral plumb line, which represents the gold standard to which we are called in life, especially within our personal relationships.

We recognize it is no small task to topple erroneous, entrenched concepts, notions, and outright myths about dating, marriage, parenting, divorce, and, yes, even sex that have taken root in our society today. We believe such relationship "bibles" as Cosmopolitan and Glamour magazines (or worse, the "beer and babes" titles for men like Playboy, Maxim, and FHM) have aided and abetted our declining morals. For truth be told, if the loose—and, sometimes, downright lewd—propositions heralded each month across the checkout counters by their latest "how to..." do work, why then have so many of us not experienced the levels of fulfillment in our personal relationships that they claim we ought to achieve with their "quick, simple, easy steps to...”?

The fact is we need to get back to the basics. Quite likely, this will mean examining—and, more likely, challenging—what we have been taught (and taken as gospel) about such matters as how to choose a life partner. Moreover, isn't it just demented how, as a society, we have prepared our children to get married, but have never resolutely taught them how to stay married, or find real happiness in the process? The good news is there is truth on such issues, truth that needs to be examined carefully, and taught diligently to Generation X...and the next.

We hope you'll continue to enjoy our interim web site offerings, and that you'll watch for postings on this, our recently created The Real Proposal™ magazine BlogSpot. Here, you'll be able to post comments and opinions on topical issues, and witness our actual countdown to launch. Finally, please continue to spread the word about The Real Proposal™ magazine. We have placed several "Send Page to a Friend" links and Email Registers throughout our site, which are quick and easy to use. Ultimately, your efforts will benefit all of us as we promise to deliver The REAL Proposal for Marriage... Beyond White Lace & Promises.

12 comments:

paula said...

this is a refreshing and welcome outlet for discussion
I am glad you talked about staying married rather than just getting married
..... even age old advice from the from the bible suggests that it is sometimes better ...to remain single.....
1st cornthians 7v8

Anonymous said...

As a husband and a father, this magazine and blogspot will allow me to voice my heartfelt concerns and thoughts without bias.The fact that this is open to male and female/ family, indeed ,very refreshing.

Malcom said...

After reading your post, I must say that I felt gratitude and encouragement, just knowing that someone else is looking at what’s happening with marriage and the family. The breaking up of families today via divorce is not a pretty picture. All marriages get tested at some point, so if your website can offer advice, pointers, or help to families, that would be very good. I take the time to talk to my daughters and show them what a father means in a family, and how a husband should treat is wife. Believe this, it's no easy task, because society paints a different picture... like men don’t matter; it's OK to have them father children, and support them financially, but it doesn’t really matter if they’re not there to raise them. These days, two gay men want to raise children, and two lesbians want to raise children and call that "family." So, if men like me don’t stand up and fill their rightful place, what’s going to happen to our society? I am therefore grateful that a magazine like yours will provide me with help me with the issues in a "right" way, and I will keep visiting your site. The articles you have listed there are eye opening.

charles said...

The Seven R’s Pledge..is a good reminder for us to step up and be ready for life's.it's about giving back and reaching out to others . The adults in the different articles that u have posted are no examples for me, these couples change wives and husband like like time share properties no commitment to each other, just untill the next best thing comes along.or they piss each other off.they need help, real help...

Janice said...

I just read the commentery The Seven R’s Pledge on your site and must agree with Charles. After all, my mom and dad are always saying some of that stuff, there must be some truth to it. I will keep looking on your site for info on how to stay in my relationship, and help others, it's nice to see all the crazy relationships in one place, it just makes me aware and want to try and save mine... charles is right we need real help. I will keep chceking your site..... It's real alright.... just a girl who wants to be different and not be like the people in the break ups posted.

Anonymous said...

I am glad you mentioned on your site that there are some marriages that should be
highlighted on the news stands instead of the weekly tally of "hook ups" and "bust ups"

I was impressed eg. with what I have heard about Denzel Washington's relationship with his wife and his children..It goes back to solid family values.. His mother ,also, prays everyday not only for her children but her chidren's children....and this started long before her grandchildren were even born...

marie said...

As a member of the Generation X you speak of, I'm glad to see that this magazine will gear some advice to the younger generation like myself. Advice that isn't only makeup or fashion related. It is at this time in our lives we need to acknowledge the things in life that are not superficial. I thoroughly enjoy the website and I look forward to the publication!!

Anonymous said...

This is what we have been waiting for.

My wife and I will celebrate our 40th anniversary this month. It is shocking to see the where we are going as a nation. who would have thought we would have to specify genders in marriage, with male to male or female to female. The fall of every nation has one thing in common.....total disregard for the laws of God.

Your magazine is a refreshing change to the special interest magazines that caters to immorality. Hollywood is spreading the gospel that there is no right and no wrong. I guess there are no criminals.

Anonymous said...

yes, it is about time that the truth betold.This whole sacrement of marriage is now in a state of utter confusion and a joke in this society.Tme has come for some one to enlighten the people who have gone astray and an injection of this truth is needed..good work..

Diana B said...

Bravo! A magazine whose time has, indeed, come. Good timing. I like the title -- positive and very holistic.

The Real Proposal™ magazine said...

ORIGINALLY POSTED: Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Charles, Thank you for your comments because you echo our sentiments exactly! Perhaps, you missed the disclaimer that we post at the top of all of our "Marriage In The News" web pages:

"Marriage" In The News is NOT a monthly online representation of The Real Proposal™ magazine. The articles and features presented below are simply an indication of how topical, controversial, and all-encompassing the issues surrounding marriage are throughout our society—and the world—today. Some of the views and opinions expressed, and their respective web sites, do NOT reflect the views or opinions of The Real Proposal™ magazine. Many are highlighted largely to reiterate that the alarming statistical trends on the chaotic state of "Marriage" and "Family"—outlined in "A Mere Glimpse"—will continue unabated without a fundamental grasp and purposeful dissemination of TRUTH on the issues."

Have you taken a look yet at the link we provided to define what we mean by TRUTH, or at Therealproposal.com “Home” page for a sampling of The Real Proposal™ magazine covers? For sure, they bear witness to the fact that we have no intention of edifying any of these shallow celebrity lifestyles that are glorified in other magazines. For convenience, we have placed links to The Real Proposal™ magazine “Home” and “MARRIAGE In The News” web pages on this blog.

So keep reading! We appreciate your interest. Our best to you.

PS: Just loved your analogy to “time share properties” :)

ORIGINALLY POSTED: Tuesday, November 28, 2006

denise said...

ORIGINALLY POSTED: Sunday, December 3, 2006

Far too often media publications have opted to pander to the rather superficial aspects of living and loving in today's society. There are thousands of women and men who wish to read more enlightening topics about relationships. While headline teasers such as "How to Please Your Man" or "How to Make Her Want You More" scream at us from news-stands each month, such publications are hardly worth the expense much less reading.

Your magazine seemingly offers an innovative approach to men and women living and loving in today's society. The articles are thought-provoking and offer different perspectives for readers.

Finally, a magazine that recognizes that marriage in the context of a committed, God-centered relationship requires far more than filling in a change-of-name form and furnishing a residential structure.

Thank you for providing an outlet that focuses on the far-too-often ignored topics that are so vital to men and women who value and respect sustaining healthy, loving relationships.

ORIGINALLY POSTED: Sunday, December 3, 2006